If you’re reading this, it looks like you’re trying to get a jump-start on shopping for Mother’s Day gifts. First of all, on behalf of moms everywhere, thank you. Your thoughtfulness doesn’t go unnoticed. Especially since you clearly don’t want to get your mom just any gift, you want to get her one she’ll actually love.
Before any presents enter the picture, though, you should know that your mom is going to treasure what you get her, no matter what. You could give her a broken crayon and she’d probably tuck it away in a drawer somewhere for sentimental safekeeping.
But real talk, she’s probably long overdue for something that — how do we put this delicately? — she actually wants. Something she needs. Something she’s probably dropped a few subtle hints about in your presence.
If you’re feeling the pressure, well, don’t. We’ve got you covered! Avoid clichés by following our guide to the dos and don’ts of Mother’s Day gifting for the modern mom.
Forget about flowers, get her a plant
Listen, if your mom seriously adores getting a fresh bouquet, then by all means give your local florist a call. But most of us moms are pretty practical, and we don’t really want you wasting your money on a gift that will wilt and die before the week’s out.
A plant, however, is the gift that keeps on giving. Every time she waters it, enjoys its blooms or simply glances in its direction, she’ll think of you. If she lacks a green thumb, you could always go with something hardier, like oh-so-trendy succulents or a Sansevieria.
Chocolates, schmocalates – what she really wants is wine
To be clear, few mothers are going to turn down a box of chocolates. However, it’s one of those gifts that a mom might scarf down and then feel guilty about. But wine? Ain’t nothing wrong with that. So, bring along a bottle of her favorite vino to pour into the brand-new, double-wall-vacuum-insulated, stainless steel wine glass tumbler you’re buying her.
Risk buying something she’s already read? Go with a new tome instead
Picking up a book by her favorite author may seem like a safe bet, but let’s be realistic: If she’s really a fan, she’s probably already read everything that is out and has the author’s next book on pre-order.
Here’s an even better bet: Buy soccer legend and motivational speaker Abby Wambach’s new bookWolfpack: How to Come Together, Unleash Our Power, and Change the Game. After all, your mom’s the fiercest woman you know, right? She’s always empowered you, so here’s your chance to return the favor.
Move away from the cookbooks! Mama needs an Instapot
Trust us on this; she has plenty of cookbooks. And beyond that, she’s got Pinterest. But if she doesn’t yet have an Instapot, you’ve got the opportunity to be a real hero this Mother’s Day by giving your mom the trendiest countertop appliance around.
Bypass the DIY spa kit in favor of a DNA kit
Sure, moms love pampering. Alas, one woman’s bathroom can only hold so many bath bombs, loofahs and lotions. If you really want to show her you care, give her the chance to learn more about her (and therefore your) family tree. Connecting with her relatives on a deeper level by purchasing a DNA kit — like 23andMe — will make her feel more special than any moisturizer or soak could.
Say no to a coffee mug, but yes to a tea kettle
Coffee mugs are cute and all, but they tend to take up valuable real estate in a kitchen. The more you have, the less you actually use — instead of fussing over how to reach the one in the back precariously supporting a stack, Mama likely just uses her favorite. In other words, don’t bother with buying her any more.
What you could do, though, is buy her a cool color-changing electric kettle. That way, she can quickly and easily prepare a hot beverage to drink from her trusty mug. Make the gift even more special by promising to join her for tea from time to time.
Skip the traveling toiletry kit and splurge on luxe luggage
For moms who love to travel, a toiletry kit might seem like a perfectly logical gift idea. They’ll need one when they’re on the go, right? However, if she travels often, she undoubtedly has at least one of these already (and probably back-ups, too).
Take your gift one step further by investing in quality luggage. She’ll feel impossibly chic strolling through the airport with this vintage-style, genuine leather steamer-trunk suitcase.
Again, your mother will appreciate anything you give her — even if it is another collectible that will ultimately accrue dust on a shelf somewhere. You can do better than that, though. How? Let her pick out her own gift with an Amazon gift card. There are few things more pleasing to a mother than being given carte blanche to order from Amazon Prime.